Originally Posted by Brokenfriend

I just cannot seem to get rid of these fears. I have been wrestling through three major fears. They seem to expand at times when I'm dealing with one. I cannot seem to think clearly, but my mind is unclear, and deep in my chest is a group of stunning fears that I cannot seem to shake. No one wants to hear my problems, and concerns in the family who I have left. My Dad, Mom, and sister have passed away, now my bol, and nieces don't want to comfort me. I feel alone, and cannot seem to unburden myself from my concerns. I haven't felt this insecure in years. I've been scared for more than a week now. BF

Originally Posted by ger715

BF,

So sorry you are having this constant fear.

Just a thought; you mention bol and nieces don't want to hear your problems and concerns;
Have you tried asking them how they are doing? I wonder if they may be a little hurt and think you may not seem interested in what problems they are dealing with.

But one thing for sure here at NT; we are all interested in one another and want you and others to share their concerns. But we are a different sort of family here at NT. That's what makes this site so special.


Gerry

Originally Posted by ger715

Hi BF;

Are you feeling any better??

Sometimes just writing down a whole bunch of thoughts or things you are thinking about or want to share/discuss might lighten up some of the heaviness you often feel . We are here for you.

Do you have any special interests; reading, art, writing, etc.?

Gerry