I do know what you mean Stacy every now and then I wonder if I did something wrong to cause this but then I realize it wasn't my fault.

I agree with Suzanne about the books etc. that make it seem they blame the suffer. I particularly dislike the ones that say it is mind over matter and your mind can make the disease go away. I always think do these people think we want this. Do they not realize if we could think PN away we would.

I think a good attitude and taking the supplements, eating well, doing as much exercise as tolerable, etc help. At least it helps me. But we go into flare ups. Many times I haven't changed a thing when the flare ups occur. Sometimes it is as simple as a change in weather. It has been so hot and humid here.

So don't blame yourself. It's not your fault. Things will get better again. Take the time to take care of yourself for now