until you have been with somebody you love, who is suffering and not getting their own person wishes fufilled...then it is would be hard to give an honest knowledgble reply.

i think many who voice opinions on not allowing somebody to die the way they want..have not been through the experience.

it sucks to put it bluntly.

i can't say for sure what would have happened if my brother had lived longer than he did. we had less than a week after the dr's said he was terminal. i loved him with my whole heart. i never left his side...litterly..i was on the bed with him..for 5 days. buti would have gladley gone to prison to stop his sufferling.

i'm sorry alffe that your brother had to endure so much pain.

hey addy..i see you snuck in here and posted while i was posting.