Okay I am not sure if I fit in here or not with my opinion but I am gonna throw it out there.
I surely do have days I dont leave the couch let alone the home....other days I am the farm woman who was unstopable.
I have always preached and practiced...."if you dont use it ya lose it"
Therefore when my mom starts tellin me what I should opr shouldnt do for my own good....and saying she thinks she should sell out and move here.....I hit the damn roof......
I have my 16 year old dd here and my DH I do not need a fulltime babysitter at this time. I dont want to have anyone looking over my shoulder or watching what and how I cook food, Or when I am or am not sleeping.....no one else can do anything bout any of my SX.....
My mother is ticked at this but I just tell her its my life and I have chose to deal with this just my DH and DD and DS"s......I dont feel like I should have to accept her so called "HELP" and dont hink I should feel guilt about sticking to my ground and doing everything I can on my own for as LONG as I can!!!!!
Does that make sence?