I have come across so many people who are dismissive of my MS symptoms. Everybody wants to say, oh I have that too.

Well I avoid those I can, but for those that I can't I try to ignore this behavior and not bring up any of my symptoms around them. If I can't do something with them because of my health, I have to make up some other excuse. They tend to be more excepting of some lame excuse than they are of the truth about my health.

Also, for those who "have it all" too, I try to remember that, while they may not have what I have, they could be struggling with something as well. I am not them. I can't stand when people think what I'm going through isn't as bad as I'm saying it is, so I would be just as bad as them if said that to or about anyone else.

I don't think they are trying to be rude. I think they are just trying to keep up the conversation and don't know what else to say. I do wish they wouldn't though because it is very frustrating.

I hope you find a way to get around this with your friend. It is very hard to lose a friend because of your health. Good luck!