I'm not getting that. I'm getting a person in pain reaching out for help/support in the right place to do that. I often quote a Japanese business proverb, "Fix the problem -- not the blame." What's happened in the past, whether many years ago or yesterday, has happened, and we cannot change that. You are where you are NOW, so the question is where to go from here.

Many folks here have had bad experiences with doctors and the medical system, myself included. Something to think about... half of all doctors are below average. That can sound pretty bad until one considers that the other half are above average.

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