ok-I will encourage her to star massage in a few more days.

my final question-could the swelling be due to a broken jaw and could the oral surgeon have completely missed that possibility-he did not mention it as a possibility and has not taken any exrays since the original surgery-should I request X-rays when we next go in-and what is the treatment-will she have to have her jaw wired shut? How I wish we had never had this surgery!