I am sorry about your family. I want you to know that I read your posts, and I do understand about being abandoned. I was also by my daughter and her husband over a trust my mother had. I have a four year old grandson I never even got a picture of. Pain is still there, as it is for you. Sometimes you have to let go to feel better. You can't make them behave in an kind way toward you. I gave up, and let go, or the emotional pain would have done me in. I went to council instead. This may help you come to terms with your families issues, and get you through the rough spot now. I empathize with you, and I care. ginnie