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Old 08-09-2013, 09:16 AM
ginnie ginnie is offline
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ginnie ginnie is offline
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Join Date: Aug 2010
Location: Anna Maria Island Florida
Posts: 6,278
10 yr Member
Default Hi Bram

Alopecia is awful mentally. I had hair down to my waist. Caught a virus that put me in the ER. While there my body tingled, and so did every hair on my head. My hair fell out in clumps, to where my bed had to be vacumned. I went to some 20 doctors to find out what was wrong. It took Mayo clinic to make the DX. I became bald in under six weeks. Mayo got me into a trial study, as my health went south at the same time. I took a form of chemo for almost 9 years at columbia university med. center. Only three places at that time in the country would even try. The T @ B lymphocytes that normally attack colds, flu, virus, are all out fighting, but they forget who they are fighting and attack me as a foreign object. In the ball park of lupus, in which I am carefully watched.

In florida. You cannot wear a wig. The synthetics literally melt on your head, and are so hot it makes you sick. So I wear my version of a biker look, called a doo rag. I make them out of old t shirts, to match my outfits.
Yeh I look like a baby bird, trying to get feathers but not doing so good at it. I do get my hair back now and then, but the same hair loss happens over and over again, all my life. The times I do get it back, I love to feel the wind in my hair on the beach. I revel in each day I get to keep it. I look normal, and I am not shunned.

In stores for example, I am followed, as I wear this biker type hat on my head. I am assumed to be a criminal over my looks. Men shun me too, as they are visual, and do not select women, even if they are OK in looks, just over the hair issue.
My housemate..., I had hair in Feb. of this year when I met him. First thing I did was tell him this would happen. It did, and he is very accepting, and non judging.. However, I have to hide my head to feel comfortable, and lose my privacy to go "Uncovered" This is one of 5 auto immune conditions I have.
So that's the story on this particular condition. I would not wish it on my worst enemy for what it does to you emotionally.

I hope your hair comes back naturally, and that it is just stress. This is the first time I actually talked about this condition here on NT. ginnie
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