My children were all teenagers when I got hurt. They were used to a very busy mom, always at least 2 jobs. I got hurt lost my job, my business, and then soon our home. I now live on a family members farm in a camper with my husband. The youngest takes it the hardest. He blames me for everything, and sadly so do I. If I hadn't spoiled them so much and keep working to spoil them they wouldn't have to face how harsh life is. So all I do everyday is apologize to everyone for getting hurt. I screwed up by spraining my ankle.i should have watched MY STEP. But your kids sound like they are handling things so much greater, they must have the strength of their daddy!