I am so sorry. This is NOT your fault...there is nothing that you did to cause the miscarriage. I questioned that for myself...and EVERYTHING I read says that with early miscarriages there is something physical that made the pregnancy not viable. This is 100% of the time. It's not something you ate or drank, not any meds you took...it just wasn't meant to be.

Take care of yourself and focus on the family you DO have. And if you want a baby...talk that over with your partner and maybe you can try for one. I know this one wasn't planned...and I don't mean that having another baby will replace this one in any way (because I know it won't)...but you CAN try for another if you want to.

I do know what you are going through...the sadness of the loss...the hole you have inside you now. Allow yourself to grieve for the loss but don't lose yourself in the process. What's done is done...you cannot go back in time and undo things. We have to accept and move on...but that doesn't mean it won't hurt.

Please please take care of yourself.