Just a quick update. He did get to see an MD which was required in order to get a referral to see a TBI specialist.

He did pretty good but spent a lot of time arguing with the doctor about the benefits of his self medicating and not wanting any man mde medications.

The doctor handled it well. I wasn't there but my wife said the doctor was able to see some examples of his shifts back and forth into becoming irritated over minor things and then quickly going back to being happen and then suddenly shifting again over minor things that agitated him.


His paranoia has continued to decrease but he seems to do his very best to make sure my wife and I are not alone together. He does not want us talking with each other. He demands a lot of my time, comes to my place of work, wants me to spend hours with him alone. He gets very irritated if my wife and I tell him we want to have a "date night" without him. We even went bowling with a group of her co-workers last night and he insisted on going with us saying we don't spend enough "family" time together.

This fits well with the behaviors his girlfriends have described over the past year and half. He has become controlling, wants to be with them at all times, does not want them to go anywhere without him and yet he feels people are always cheating, sneaking around and lieing to him (yes that is paranoia)

Even when I was visiting with my wife on the phone and he was next to me. I told him I could hear her cooking something and it was sizzling like we might be having friend chicken. Then we got home and found out she was cookign something else. He got very upset with me and said I had lied to him about the chicken and he was really upset.

THis behavior is so confusing and not part of his normal personality at all.