Hi, PTSD,

That makes sense to stop the day when you get to the end of what you can handle. Maybe that is a bit like a milk jug getting filled up --- when it is full it is full and there is no reason to try to cram more milk into even though sometimes that is our tendency.

The retirement ceremony is all yours whether your sister has anything going on the day after or not.

(I just watched a retirement ceremony on youtube. It was beautiful.)

M