Finally I have some answers! I have splashed the cash and paid to see a private Neuro. Turns out the consultant I have been seeing has mis-diagnosed me completely!!! ( I am furious) I have a nasty spinal cord compression in the top of my neck - hence the nerve symptoms all over. I need surgery to remove a prolapsed disc and bone spur that are pinching my cord opposite each other. Phew ... great to have answers. Fingers crossed I get a date soon before any more damage occurs. Thanks for your help and advice

... and I have made a complaint against the doc - he needs to know he made a mistake and not make the same one with anyone else!