Well the BIA-FL called me back today. The woman who called was very nice and said she would email me some information about TBI, and also send a list of physicians in my area who can help me. I didn't expect much more than that but it was nice to tell her about my injury and to hear that what I was experiencing was normal. She suggested I get a neuropsych evaluation so that I can get some idea for treatment or management of my symptoms.

Not sure I'll learn anything new since I have pretty much read the entire internet's worth of research about TBI, but maybe it has stuff I can forward to my family. We shall see!