I hear your pain. I am so sorry you have developed this CPRS. To be looked over by your doctor and basically not listened to is awful. The process of getting disability is even worse, I know it, as I have been through that He__ too. You have to get a doctor that is going to follow through the whole process. I also would NOT meet some maybe doctor in a hotel room...are they crazy? That doctor isn't on your side.
If you post near where you live perhaps someone on NT can recommend someone that is knowledgeable about CPRS. There is help for it. Ketamine infusions have been used for our troops with good success rates. You need a team in place, doctors who actually work with each other to help your case. A lawyer at this point, to see you through the disability part would be a great relief to you. Go back to the state legal representative, I had mine involved through the process, and it seemed to speed things up a bit.
I hope you can find a doctor who really does know about CPRS. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Don't give up, use that frustration to the good and find the team you need to have peace and some resolution in your life. ginnie