As a primary caregiver for a relative with FTD (Frontotemporal Lobe Dementia), I know it is important for both of you to have periods of respite, where you each have time to not be focused on health or its related issues. If there is a Helping Hearts organization in your area, one idea may be to enlist input and also be able to speak freely.

I've heard repeatedly is that it's essential that family members who are closest in relation not be the primary caregiver. It can either strenghten or create a rift in relations.

I do feel for you.

Life doesn't make it easy. Maybe that's why it's called life. Just don't let it wear you down or break your spirit.