I know how you feel. Mine are my brats. I even had a dr once tell me to get rid of my big 4 legger cause I was getting hurt by her. She is MY brats and just because she doesnt do everything perfect doesnt mean I will get rid of her. My brat cats get me at times and they are still with me. The only way to get me to part with my bratsbis to kill me. They are just as much my kids as my 2 legged children are. Plus ive had her 8 yrs and wouldn't want to subject someone else unknowingly to her quirks lol or her to abuse.