thanks for your replies. he's been on wellbutrin for years (before the accident where he walked into a sign post crossing the street) so he doesn't feel it's part of the problem. he didn't have sexual side effects from it before. and yes, he is able to get an erection. masturbating is not pleasurable for him, though. and he says he's not able to fantasize anymore.

i mentioned the urologist visit but he feels overwhelmed by going to another doctor. plus the cost. the initial testoterone test was only partially covered by his basic insurance. it was given by his gp. would. urologist redo the test? why a prostate exam.

and obviously, sex isn't everything but it is important to me.

thank you again-