Also check out the bulletin board at the hospital. They might have some posting on there about people willing to help. Also at the Dr's offices. Call up to the senior centers too. I know it sounds funny, but they might have a program that drives to and from and usually not that expensive. Some places cost I think but don't quote me around $5 to 10 for a trip, week month and so on. Check through your church first though. While your getting treatment they can go get lunch or do a little shopping for things they can't get in your town. I live rural not city, couldn't stand it. So when I get back to my home I will be looking this stuff up myself. Will make it a lot easier getting back and forth to the VA in El Paso, Tx. Don't feel like you need to hold this all in either. I have gotten the same thing from my husband because he has had to take a few days off to get me to and from the drs and surgery. He gets irritated but they survive. I know you want to hide how you feel but let it out. I have my in laws back in Alamogordo and I have a few friends that can drive me but its still hard. Plus with 2 littles its going to be harder. Keep smiling.