Welcome, sorry you have to be here for this beast. The best things I have found are keeping positive, this forum and my family. It took them almost 10 yrs to figure out what was wrong mwith me. I know it hurts. I don't know the pain your in, or Renee's in but I know my pain. Do what you can when you can and don't let them push you aside like your the red headed step child. What works for 1 person doesnt for another. We are here for you to vent, cry or shout for joy as needed. There aremsome people on here that knows a ton more about this diseasethan I do. Even though I have had it longer than some I didnt know it. I have learned aton of info from them. Everyone with this and other chronic diseases are in my prayers.