Hi Sally

I can certainly whine with you - this week, I spent a few days at the home of my in-laws. They are both in their mid-eighties, and here was I at the ripe old age of 44, nearly passing out from 35 C (95 deg F) weather - AND THEY WERE FINE. I swear I felt like someone had filled my left leg and arm with concrete, I was the kinda numb that hurts and I felt like a total fraud, staggering like a drunk, foggy, and feeling teary and super defensive for no reason at all.

Surely if anyone has earned the right to complain or be infirm, it is them - NOT ME!!!!!!