I, too, am a TM'er . . . and welcome to the forum. If you are on Facebook, we have a great women-only private page over there where we discuss all the indelicate issues we are faced with on a regular basis! If you would like more information, PM me and I will get you a link.
My biggest frustration is that it doesn't seem to matter what the diagnosis is, they all seem to be treated pretty much the same, with the same meds, which I can't take. On top of TM I have Crohn's, and no colon . . . so sometimes the toilet issues are compounded for me, which drives me crazy. And in addition, I have peripheral neuropathy too. Not diabetic though. I hope you can find information and comfort here . . .