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Old 10-02-2013, 09:55 AM
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Originally Posted by Mari View Post
I think you have the right idea about how to work things out for you.

You are in a very healthy place when you are willing to distance yourself from your sister's drama.
I second that.

Your unwillingness to get sucked into your neighbors' invites is also healthy. I am sure they mean well, and most likely, you can't make them "get it" regarding your current needs. Nonetheless I think being honest/frank about needing to stay home is fine. You don't need to provide reasons, IMHO... our preferences do not need to be justified.
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