thanks folks....I'm trying. Mark-I have started to see a therapist just recently. Part of the problem for me is that I'm an overachiever. I'm the person who is quick on her feet-need a decision? Got it. Might not be right-but I can make it. My hub is brilliant-not just because I think so, but because he really is...and I feel like he's getting robbed (not that I'm not)...but I can't have the conversations I used to...I can't follow his logic like I used to, I can't keep up like the before time. I'm so mad and so sad and I just don't know where to direct it. I'm a college student. I'm working toward something I thought I would never have and that is my 4 year degree. I'm also 46. I need to go back to work. I can't be in college forever yet I feel like its taking me longer than it would anyone else...I just can't grasp things like I did before. I'm being whiny...but dammit, I deserve it. Most of the time I look at the bright side. I'm alive, I'm relatively healthy, I'm luckier than a lot of other people who've had tbi...but I'm still mad.