Sorry you have to go through this. Well after what you told me, You most likely will get another opinion that says you need some help. Pick the neuro surgeon you are most comfortable with. I got lucky and had a fantastic doctor. I will be here for you, to listen and comfort if and when you have to get this medical issue resolved. There can be good outcomes with this, and a real fix, that will give better quality of life. Let me know what happens with your next appointment. ginnie