I don't know what others will say. I know your clock is ticking to have a baby. However, I would go to the ends of the earth if it were me, to find out what was wrong with me before I had a child. Dear Woman raising a child is such a hard job, even when you feel good. Also there is the issue of genetics? I think I would have to know for sure that I was OK and in fit condition to carry a baby and raise it. This is the biggest decision in your life you will ever make. My own labor was 36 hours, and I was physically fit. You will need all your strength in that dept. Have you tried Mayo Clinic? This is where I got my unusual DX. They were fantastic to me. I am adopted, and my genetics are unknown, perhaps I should have gone for testing myself. I do wish you all the best in whatever decision you make. I will keep you and your husband in my thoughts and prayers. ginnie