Thanks for elucidating. We may have more in common than being here.
I miss a lot too, and feel the frustration of disability/inability.

I didn't think we were arguing/debating; that wasn't my intent, anyway... And I didn't mean to criticize—just sharing some experience. Ah, the pitfalls of written exchange... You're correct, of course—face to face is better/clearer to read body/facial language and gauge reaction.

I wish I had more suggestion-wise for finding/getting care.

Doc

(I had to look up "coventry" in that context; apparently it's a British idiom we don't often use here.)