Me too.

Make all those people make their own lunches! Why are you doing anything for them that they can do themselves? I have an 11 yo too, and she has mild autism, adhd and may end up being dx with bipolar. So much fun. At least I only have her.

When we moved last I insisted that we get a one story. It's a huge help. I can drag my feet along with no stairs.

The big issue I have is nobody seems to help me when I'm crying for help. Two nights ago I wanted DH to rub my feet. He wouldn't. I constantly ask for help with dinner, and he won't help and tells DD she needs to help. He won't cook at all, hasn't for the entire time I've known him. DD sometimes helps, sometimes doesn't. I can't blame her so much, she's a kid. I was talking to DH last night (again) about getting a maid once a week to help clean the things we don't want to clean (like the shower, mop the floors, do the real cleaning, not just pick up). He distrusts everybody so this is going to be a huge fight to just get somebody in a couple hours a week.

Work has been hard, I have a lot of brain fog. Then I end up putting all my energy into work and have no time for my family, both mentally and physically. I'm really hoping to change my work situation soon. I love my job, but I really shouldn't be working at all.