Hi Tessa, I'm sorry your pain level has been higher because of the cold weather. And I hope your family get together goes well. I don't have many myself, but understand, because when I do, I get really stressed out because of the cooking and cleaning involved. My husband helps, but I want to try to help too while trying to hide the pain I'm in. Especially when my son comes over with his girlfriend. I know it's hard, but try not to overdo it. You have to take care of yourself. You've been through so much and I'm sure your family would understand. I wish I could come over to help, but I'm a lousy cook so that probably would make things worse! And thanks for the patagonia link. I'm going to check that out. My legs are bothering me alot lately, especially my right leg and hip. I hope the weather warms up for you and that you have tolerable day with happy moments too. From your friend, RSD RENEE.