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Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Phoenix AZ
Posts: 531
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Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Phoenix AZ
Posts: 531
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Well said Mark.
Guilt over your falling is an unwarranted negative emotion that can exacerbate feeling of depression and lower self-esteem, which are counterproductive to your recovery and general well-being.
Mark is right, stuff happens. You feel like an idiot for slipping on some snow? I walked right in front of a moving light rail commuter train. Do I feel like that was careless and stupid? Yes. Do I feel guilty about it? No.
In regards to dealing with guilt and other negative feelings, things that work for me include:
• I give thanks every day that I am alive.
• Take time to let those around me know that I appreciate them, especially for the care they provided during my injury and recovery (this coming up on three years ago now).
• I take time to meditate; I include meditations on gratitude and loving kindness during my sessions. I include group yoga classes in addition to my private meditation practice.
• I actively practice having compassion, this include compassion for myself as well as for others.
Best to you as you contunue on your recovery journey.
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What Happened: On November 29, 2010, I was walking across the street and was hit by a light rail commuter train. Result was a severe traumatic brain injury and multiple fractures (skull, pelvis, ribs). Total hospital stay was two months, one in ICU followed by an additional month in neuro-rehab. Upon hospital discharge, neurological testing revealed deficits in short term memory, executive functioning, and spatial recognition.
Today: Neuropsychological examination five months post-accident indicated a return to normal cognitive functioning, and I returned to work approximately 6 months after the accident. I am grateful to be alive and am looking forward to enjoying the rest of my life.
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