Ali is my hero. When she was 12, she always amazed me how strong and wise she was. She is my own kids' (boy/girl twins) ages so I keep tabs on her and them when possible (Ali rarely now, like only now). I used to be on Facebook (an account I deactivated long ago) but admit when I was a "Facebook Stalker", I looked at Ali's and my kids' FB to look at their lives. Friends, boy/girl friends, breakups.And I always told my students (emotionally Disturbed) I had an invisible sign up on the wall LIFE IS NOT FAIR. It isn't