Look guys, I ranted myself originally, and the OP came on and apologised quickly and tried to explain.
Yes what they said was not tactful to say the least, but this is now getting really unpleasant and everyone is repeating the same thing. I'm sure the OP has realized that what they said has gone down about as badly as any first post could...
I only say this because I don't see how this helps us as a community. We all agree on this. How about we move on and let things quiet down?
No offence to anyone, and of course everyone is entitled to their say, but I hope you know what I mean
Try and have a good day lovely folk x
Bram.