Sal, TMI here…I can sit on the toilet for 15 minutes and my bladder sphincter opens and shuts, opens and shuts…then I get in the shower and I make a shower I always think I'm finished, but it's never true...

I think the sphincter muscle is spasming; my neuro is really pushing me to go to a good urologist and get botox injections to stop the incontinence/off and on going. He feels it works for about 6 months and then I can get off of the med that is supposed to help incontinence, which dries out all of the mucous membranes. He suggested that that might be the reason I'm having such awful dental problems-dry mouth.

Erin, sorry your dad broke your car

I like Baby Bel cheese with my cabernet, thank you very much