Hi Kitty,
I have had a very fine hand tremor for many years that, typically, I really don't notice. I have also had the problem of wearing some of my food. In general I find it annoying when at home and quite embarrassing when eating out.
One time while having dinner at home and food spilled onto my shirt I looked at my husband and said, I don't understand why I always doe this." He looked at me, told me to pick up my fork (without food on it). Then he pointed out the slight movement of the fork and said can you see? Your hand shakes.
Oh good grief! I had simply never noticed or put two and two together. My husband notices more than I realize
My writing ability due to tremors is off and on. Sometimes my writing is fine and other times it looks like a child wrote it.
I also have hand tremors that are quite noticeable and I need to hold items such as a glass with both hands or I will spill.