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Old 12-07-2013, 04:16 PM
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Originally Posted by Erika View Post
My Dad and Step mom have asked if...or rather when, I will be coming for Christmas. I usually do spend a few days with them either before, during or after, but I don't think that I'll be able to go this year. Its a 10 hour drive but could turn out to be longer on winter roads, and I just don't think that the body is up to it, the way it feels right now.

I haven't shared with them the problems that I've been having of late, but unless things improve, I may have to..

It seems odd to say this, but I'd sort of like to catch a cold or something equally temporary, so that I could use that as an excuse for not coming.
I just don't like to worry them, or have them feeling badly over my situation, especially over the holidays.
They have a hard time believing me when I say that I am just fine and content to be at home by myself when they know that the body is struggling.
Parents...got to love them .

With love, Erika
Erika
I so understand your dilemma....sometimes its more comfortable to just have "an ordinary day" when our disease is raging. And its equally hard to disappoint family and friends. I hope you find a solution that every one understands. Just a gentle reminder, we don't drive as well in pain. Bad weather, slow twitchy reflexes, just be careful and be good to yourself!
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