Swat im so sorry anybody would say such a horrific thing to you! That's just horrible! That said I completely understand where you are coming from, After I couldn't work anymore I dived in and started helping caring for family with extensive health issues. However after 4yrs of doing it, Ive been doing a lot of reflecting and I realized I lost who I was after I was injured and then when I plunged into caring for family, my life consumed around that, and so I still never had found who I truly am after everything. So im making MAJOR changes for ME. My life does not revolve around my family, I do have one outside of it, I just need to find it. So by doing what ever im doing on this quest, im going with my good friend on a trip for a day, just a day, but its a day just for ME! So take however much time and find who you are outside of your family, because there is a YOU, and YOU matter, and YOU deserve happiness!