sounds all to familiar. I have noticed good improvements on the muscle spasm side of things when taking a magnesium citrate/ calcium citrate/ d3 blend. They aren't totally gone but tolerable. My neurologist told me stress has nothing to do with nueropathy. Might just be his opinion. I have survived cancer and that was a cake walk compared to having nueropathy and the other pains that can come with it. Very frustrated along with you!