Merry Christmas to you too Renee
Murgir, I'm so sorry, I hope today is much kinder to you, and that you at least got an explanation and apology for such thoughtlessness
Why is it that those who should be closest to us have the ability to cause such pain? Goodness knows what goes through their heads sometimes... Take care of yourself, and I hope You get on ok at work. You're a brave soul, and it's great you're giving it a go
good luck x
Bram.