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Originally Posted by mary jane
I cannot have intercourse or even outercourse.
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Ever—or are there exceptions?
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My only other hope is dating someone really old and maybe with problems of his own (impotence)....
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ED and other male dysfunctions aren't limited to old guys—there are plenty of younger guys with similar issues; take a look at the thread preceding this one (at this writing).
Female in a relationship with an asexual male.
There are also young men who may have been injured in combat (veterans), or accidents...
I agree that when to divulge is a conundrum. I'm not sure I'd want to put it right out there in a profile or first meeting; it's really nobody's business unless there's a real possibility for intimacy, and you don't/won't know that until after the first meeting (or several). OTOH, it's probably a good idea to make it known fairly early so as not to lead anyone on. This determination might be better made on a case by case basis rather than just putting it out there. (I'm sort of thinking aloud here; sometimes it helps to talk/write through things.)
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