courtney,
You need to give yourself a break. Planning and hosting a New Years Eve party is way over the top. I expect you to be next to comatose on New Years Day. Plan on at least three days rest with your clean up stretched over those three days, unless someone else is willing to clean up after your party.
You both would benefit from sitting down together at the computer and watching "You Look Great" by John Byler on You Tube. He does a great job of explaining this. Your husband and close friends would all benefit from watching the whole 6 part series. It takes about an hour. Here is a link to the first segment.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x9Xso...ature=youtu.be
The Lost and Found web page at
http://www.brainline.org/content/201...u-to-know.html is also good.
Please take time to rest quietly. And remember to give yourself a break. It would help if you could get your husband to slow you down. It will help with your recovery.
And, take plenty of B-12 and a good B-50 complex. Your brain will need it to handle the stress load.
My best to you.