Hi Momwriterstudent,
Oh yes, you listed many, many symptoms we have all felt. These do subside with time and brain rest.
If you have to work on your computer, there is a free thing out there called
f.lux and it will help cut out the glare on the computer too.
http://justgetflux.com/
Maybe you can take breaks from your computer to help with brain rest.
I hope you can get some help with your children. It's hard when you are sick, but you are. I really hope you can get a support system working for you in your area.
Hang in there and keep asking questions. Help is here.
Sincerely
poetrymom