My only sister (we were 12 months apart) was hit and killed by a commuter train...10 yrs ago now. I had to go back to work 5 days later to manage a huge high-rise. My boss acted like it was business as usual. . I sobbed for months; I never knew how to deal with it and felt so alone. I've had CRPS now for 3 yrs after foot surgery...I'm a lot stronger now and able to with my disability b/c of losing my sister, I think. Anyone else dealt with something similar that might help?