Hello, your not silly for asking for help. I've suffered from vulvodynia for 4yrs and I'm now 20yrs old. I can send you a list of all the treatments that I've experienced and let you know how they work. I also know a great herbal natural balm that really helps the burning. I'd be more than happy to talk to you. I find it very helpful to talk to people who know our pain. *edit*