I agree with Hopeless.....this sounds like a positive development to me too.

It sounds like things have been extraordinarily difficult for you, Agony. I'm sorry for all that you've been through and all of the losses you've had to endure. It sure sounds like you deserve a break and some good news for a change.

Try to prepare yourself for more waiting. It SEEMS like if the SSA has made up their mind on you, they could let you know quickly and get the back pay process started. They seldom move quickly. Don't let that discourage you.