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Originally Posted by lcms0516
See, That is the difference. I don't 'rollover' when someone 'ignorantly' says 'NO'.
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Yeah, seems to me this isn't the first time you have been not listened to (there was a lot of relationship drama with either the first shunt or a revision unless you never posted to one of the other mailing lists). Trying to *make* someone listen frequently causes them to dig in more, not less. Respecting another person's boundaries is the better response, not otherwise.