Quote:
Originally Posted by pogo
Mm, you accuse me of judging you and then turn around with negative speculations of your own about me. I think that says a lot about you.
Dealing with docs who don't listen is a completely different issue, think that is part and parcel of dealing with specialists/humans. Aside from encouraging and supporting your friend, it really isn't something you control. But how you communicate with your friend can leave open doors or cause her to want to close them.
|
I didn't 'accuse' you of anything. I said "may", that is not an assertion based on fact. But a perception based on public attitude.
As for her 'closing doors' on me. The only time she has ever done that, was following her being released from the hospital in 2012. her fiance was bugging her to cut contact. Which she did on three consecutive weeks, only to contact me days later.
I did close the door for nine months where Yahoo Messenger is concerned, but not on her specifically. I just found it overwhelming and needed a break. Our only form of contact is through Yahoo Messenger. So she was naturally wondering where I went, when I re-installed Yahoo Messenger in May 2012 after getting a new computer for my birthday.
Yes, Regardless of whether you agree or not, it sounds like a circus. I even asked her in 2012 why she wanted to stay in touch with everything going on.
Her reasoning was because she felt like she could talk to me. Considering her hydro, I am glad she can.
Her fiance was initially hostile about her hydro to the point that he broke up with her for a week in 2012. I don't know the exact reason for their separation right before Christmas. But I wouldn't be surprised if his hostility about her health is part of it.