You are not alone.It is hard on everyone..I sometimes think it is my fault we do not do more..Because I cannot walk as well as I once could..So I feel I hold him back..Even get snappy at him.I guess no one is perfect..With or without RSD.I feel our sex life has changed a lot too.I have to say we have had a lot of ups and downs,but I sure know we love each another no matter what..I have had RSD for almost 4 years..It will be 4 years on the 24th of this month..He did not run away,he married me Dec.22,2012..He sang to me first ,Singing I CROSS MY HEART..It was the best..He is the best.. So hang in there,talking is good.Share the little things too.I find making little love notes help to brighten the days..On there pillow,in there coat pocket,it makes you and him or her smile..