I am sorry you're having such a rough time BMW, I wish your hubby finds it on his own that he feels better WITH the CPAP then he does without, I have used it every night I can and I feel it when the mask goes off in the middle of the night and I have put it back on because it really makes me feel better breathing through it. I hope you both have a great weekend, I will be busy packing and organizing, not that we have much of that left.