Hi Melody:

I know just what you mean about being older and feeling vulnerable. I feel the same way but I am much older than you (almost 78). I feel that an older woman, especially alone in public, can become a sort of "target". And right now I have a pinched nerve and walk slower and sometimes have to use a walking stick.

That man sure was acting strangely and who knows what his problem was. Be assured you in no way invited this behavior! I hope you don't come across the man again.

Just remember you had Alan there to protect you!

Shirley H.